Are there many jobs you can say are fun? Would be nice if there were!
Yes, fair point
My father used to say that you work in order to have the money to pay for your fun times
It's not so much the attitude any more
Tbh, it all depends what your options are
And also your character - some people cry more easily than others, some use it as a stress release, in the same way as a tennis player banging their racket on the ground is a stress release, I wouldn't read too much into the crying in and of itself
However, having lost three matches 5-7 in the third, if leading each time, that must really hurt